Love vs. Bounderies

As we all know, love is the emotion that connotes the strong feeling of affection or attraction to either the opposite sex or the same sex (as for the aliens :D).

I know that some of my readers are almost intoxicated by the entries in my blog. Since most of the time, it talks about love, affection, and the like. But, since you are one of my reader, please just bear with it. Hehehe.

Love has many forms and types, it is can also be related to religion, occults and even science has things to say about that. But, this entry doesn't tackle only one particular thing. Rather, this will be a combination of everything. So, here goes. Please be warned, this entry is full of what happened within this past 5 - 6 hours while I am away from home.

Earlier, about 6:30 to 7:00 PM, (its already 11:20 PM in my clock when I am typing this) we, me and a friend of mine are playing cards in the library, (you might be that person, so, wag ka nang umepal, magsasalita ka pa eh. :D ) as we are enjoying the game, there was this question that I just had to ask him (yup, my friend is a guy), so, what could I do, except to ask him. Out of the blue, I opened this topic. "Paano kung sumama satin si ****** sa Hero Con? Ano ang gagawin mo? Ok lang ba sayo?",(What if ****** came with us to the Hero Con? What would you do? Are you fine with that?) I asked. Feeling a bit confused this freaking friend of mine just asked, "Ano ang reson nya para sumama?" (What is her reason to come with us?)

(great, just great, a question answered with a question? Are we the three stooges? Or perhaps we are doing a two man comedy show? Where is the camera, where!!!!????)

It was so nakakatawa (funny) that reaction on his face was worth a million dollar, (but when I think about it right now, kahit piso, walang magbabayad para dun sa mukang yun, PEACE MEN!) his head almost tilted when I smiled and answered, "Ewan ko, siguro namimiss na nya ang barkada? Close din naman sya satin dati diba?" (I don't know, maybe she just misses the company of the group? She was once close to us too right?). Maybe, knowing that my answer has hit the bull's eye, he just answered "Hindi ko alam, kaso baka hindi na ako sumama kung ganun." (I don't know, maybe I won't come if that's the case.) Then, he tells me this story out of the blue. He said that his mom asked him an odd question the other day. His mom asked "Paano kung balikan ka ni ******?" Then, he just answered with a "hmm". Since the timing is just great, I pushed the question on to him. And I my memory serves right, he said that "maybe", just maybe, he still loves the girl named ****** unconsciously.

After that, we just stopped talking about those things. As he answered my question quite good. It's not really what I wanted to hear. But, it was good enough for me. I won't be telling you what happened next, but what I will tell you is what the other person said when I told HER the answer of my friend.

After that, I texted the girl that has been part of our (me and my friend) conversation. I asked her if she could grant a request. I told her everything that we had discussed and gave the excuse that I want to prevent any bad thing that could happen if his current boyfriend and my friend sets an eye for each other. Oh, just for the information of those who will be reading this, both sides (my friend, the girl and the girl's guy) are all my friends. Saying that she understands, she came to a decision that she will just be with her boyfriend staying away from us while we are travelling to the venue. Then we texted some more and it came to the point that my tongue slipped. I told her what my friend told me. And I was, well not shocked but a bit confused with her reply. She said that it has already been a year since they (my friend and the girl with the name ******) broke up. And what I said, was true for me. That love doesn't have any boundaries.

For me, loving someone isn't measured by the days that you are together, nor the nights that you are sleeping beside one another. Time cannot be a reason so measure love. Sometimes, it happens that one of the either sides in a relationship gives up the hope, just because they think that it is too late to do something. But, for me, doing something for the sake of your loved-one can never be late. It could be good or bad, but it can never be late. Because, as they say, love knows no boundaries. May it be time, height, weight, looks, age, or even religion. Once you fall in love, it just hits you. No need for reasons, no need for explanations and definitely no need for time keepers. Since love can't be measured by anything, it will always hit you, but you will never know when. You'll just realize that you are in love. Either for your past, or for your present.

And, if we were to put Love and Boundaries into a mathematical equation, we can say that if Love is 1 then, Boundaries is 0. Simple, and yet very complex. And when it hits you, it hits you.

And before this entry ends, here's a hilarious video of "Kapag Tumibok ang Puso" by Dona Cruz, performed by Moymoy Palaboy with Various Artists. Enjoy! I offer my thanks to both ****** and ***** for this. You inspired me on creating this entry. =)