In life, especially in a teen-ager's life, like me (walang kokontra, babatukan ko kayo) there are tons of happenings that even the person himself cannot even comprehend. Life, falling in-love, having crushes, having love problems and the like. Mostly, for a female teen-ager, having a boyfriend is the trend. For them, if you haven't experienced having a boyfriend at the age of maybe 15, it would be a grave mistake, cause, they think that having a boyfriend at that age is the most wonderful thing that they can experience. But, usually, as they travel to the path that they want with their spouse, they make turns that aren't meant to be made. And in the end, leads to them hurting each other, breaking their relationship, or even cursing each other to the depths of the earth. Just because they are hurt.
But, it is a very different story for the boys of that age, usually, in this age, they are still busy playing with their friends. Not the game of hide and seek for example but a rather more mature game, can sometimes be basketball or perhaps baseball, if there is an available lot big enough for them to run like chickens and throw some balls. But, sometimes, this is also the start of spring for them, like the girls, boys can fall in-love at this very age, and also may lead to a drastic ending. Boys, they say are more sensitive than girls are. Maybe that's true, or maybe, it's just their opinion.
After the hardship that both gender has discovered, that both sides has felt, they will eventually hate that guy or girl that gave them that feeling. Just because they are hurt. It may be their first time, but it will surely not be the last. So, most of the times, they tend to disregard the existence of that person, they even go to the point that they are wishing that they didn't get to know the person that made him or her to cry his or her heart out. They can even shout curses while struggling to be as tough as a concrete.
But, is it really reasonable to do this kind of things? For me, seeing a serious thing like falling in love as a child's play is definitely wrong. Falling in-love is not just laughing and kissing and making love. It is a test of endurance in one point, and a turn slot at the other. It can either make or break you. And usually, it will bring pain to you that even a strike to your stomach can't even mend. You can bleed all you want, and cry from night until dawn, but it will not be enough to put out the fire that has been scorching your feelings. But, it can also bring butterflies around you. It can bring hope and courage the time when you need it the most. Falling in-love can give a meaning to your life, it can bring a will to fight when you feel like cowing to the problems that comes your way.
As teens, both sides can either make or break themselves, this is the most crucial time. This is where we decide on what road are we going to take. Falling in-love is like a life vest that can save you when you are drowning or a stone that can drag you down. It can be a very harsh yet a very good feeling. It can make you stand on top of the world as if you were its king, or it can send you to the pits of despair.
But, the most important lesson of all, is that love always come at the right time. One doesn't have to expect or look for it, but instead, one HAS to wait for it. Because right things come at the right time, hindi sa gusto nating tamang oras, kung hindi sa gustong oras ng lumikha. So if ever you feel you are in-love, don't just ignore it. Who knows, maybe it's your turn to be loved truthfully and unselfishly. But, always be prepared for the worst, but also expect for the best.
Sorry for those people that thinks that this post is a bit weird. I'm in a love-love mode right now. Cheezy!
