Love vs. Bounderies

As we all know, love is the emotion that connotes the strong feeling of affection or attraction to either the opposite sex or the same sex (as for the aliens :D).

I know that some of my readers are almost intoxicated by the entries in my blog. Since most of the time, it talks about love, affection, and the like. But, since you are one of my reader, please just bear with it. Hehehe.

Love has many forms and types, it is can also be related to religion, occults and even science has things to say about that. But, this entry doesn't tackle only one particular thing. Rather, this will be a combination of everything. So, here goes. Please be warned, this entry is full of what happened within this past 5 - 6 hours while I am away from home.

Earlier, about 6:30 to 7:00 PM, (its already 11:20 PM in my clock when I am typing this) we, me and a friend of mine are playing cards in the library, (you might be that person, so, wag ka nang umepal, magsasalita ka pa eh. :D ) as we are enjoying the game, there was this question that I just had to ask him (yup, my friend is a guy), so, what could I do, except to ask him. Out of the blue, I opened this topic. "Paano kung sumama satin si ****** sa Hero Con? Ano ang gagawin mo? Ok lang ba sayo?",(What if ****** came with us to the Hero Con? What would you do? Are you fine with that?) I asked. Feeling a bit confused this freaking friend of mine just asked, "Ano ang reson nya para sumama?" (What is her reason to come with us?)

(great, just great, a question answered with a question? Are we the three stooges? Or perhaps we are doing a two man comedy show? Where is the camera, where!!!!????)

It was so nakakatawa (funny) that reaction on his face was worth a million dollar, (but when I think about it right now, kahit piso, walang magbabayad para dun sa mukang yun, PEACE MEN!) his head almost tilted when I smiled and answered, "Ewan ko, siguro namimiss na nya ang barkada? Close din naman sya satin dati diba?" (I don't know, maybe she just misses the company of the group? She was once close to us too right?). Maybe, knowing that my answer has hit the bull's eye, he just answered "Hindi ko alam, kaso baka hindi na ako sumama kung ganun." (I don't know, maybe I won't come if that's the case.) Then, he tells me this story out of the blue. He said that his mom asked him an odd question the other day. His mom asked "Paano kung balikan ka ni ******?" Then, he just answered with a "hmm". Since the timing is just great, I pushed the question on to him. And I my memory serves right, he said that "maybe", just maybe, he still loves the girl named ****** unconsciously.

After that, we just stopped talking about those things. As he answered my question quite good. It's not really what I wanted to hear. But, it was good enough for me. I won't be telling you what happened next, but what I will tell you is what the other person said when I told HER the answer of my friend.

After that, I texted the girl that has been part of our (me and my friend) conversation. I asked her if she could grant a request. I told her everything that we had discussed and gave the excuse that I want to prevent any bad thing that could happen if his current boyfriend and my friend sets an eye for each other. Oh, just for the information of those who will be reading this, both sides (my friend, the girl and the girl's guy) are all my friends. Saying that she understands, she came to a decision that she will just be with her boyfriend staying away from us while we are travelling to the venue. Then we texted some more and it came to the point that my tongue slipped. I told her what my friend told me. And I was, well not shocked but a bit confused with her reply. She said that it has already been a year since they (my friend and the girl with the name ******) broke up. And what I said, was true for me. That love doesn't have any boundaries.

For me, loving someone isn't measured by the days that you are together, nor the nights that you are sleeping beside one another. Time cannot be a reason so measure love. Sometimes, it happens that one of the either sides in a relationship gives up the hope, just because they think that it is too late to do something. But, for me, doing something for the sake of your loved-one can never be late. It could be good or bad, but it can never be late. Because, as they say, love knows no boundaries. May it be time, height, weight, looks, age, or even religion. Once you fall in love, it just hits you. No need for reasons, no need for explanations and definitely no need for time keepers. Since love can't be measured by anything, it will always hit you, but you will never know when. You'll just realize that you are in love. Either for your past, or for your present.

And, if we were to put Love and Boundaries into a mathematical equation, we can say that if Love is 1 then, Boundaries is 0. Simple, and yet very complex. And when it hits you, it hits you.

And before this entry ends, here's a hilarious video of "Kapag Tumibok ang Puso" by Dona Cruz, performed by Moymoy Palaboy with Various Artists. Enjoy! I offer my thanks to both ****** and ***** for this. You inspired me on creating this entry. =)

Fallng in-love, make it or break it?

In life, especially in a teen-ager's life, like me (walang kokontra, babatukan ko kayo) there are tons of happenings that even the person himself cannot even comprehend. Life, falling in-love, having crushes, having love problems and the like. Mostly, for a female teen-ager, having a boyfriend is the trend. For them, if you haven't experienced having a boyfriend at the age of maybe 15, it would be a grave mistake, cause, they think that having a boyfriend at that age is the most wonderful thing that they can experience. But, usually, as they travel to the path that they want with their spouse, they make turns that aren't meant to be made. And in the end, leads to them hurting each other, breaking their relationship, or even cursing each other to the depths of the earth. Just because they are hurt.

But, it is a very different story for the boys of that age, usually, in this age, they are still busy playing with their friends. Not the game of hide and seek for example but a rather more mature game, can sometimes be basketball or perhaps baseball, if there is an available lot big enough for them to run like chickens and throw some balls. But, sometimes, this is also the start of spring for them, like the girls, boys can fall in-love at this very age, and also may lead to a drastic ending. Boys, they say are more sensitive than girls are. Maybe that's true, or maybe, it's just their opinion.

After the hardship that both gender has discovered, that both sides has felt, they will eventually hate that guy or girl that gave them that feeling. Just because they are hurt. It may be their first time, but it will surely not be the last. So, most of the times, they tend to disregard the existence of that person, they even go to the point that they are wishing that they didn't get to know the person that made him or her to cry his or her heart out. They can even shout curses while struggling to be as tough as a concrete. 

But, is it really reasonable to do this kind of things? For me, seeing a serious thing like falling in love as a child's play is definitely wrong. Falling in-love is not just laughing and kissing and making love. It is a test of endurance in one point, and a turn slot at the other. It can either make or break you. And usually, it will bring pain to you that even a strike to your stomach can't even mend. You can bleed all you want, and cry from night until dawn, but it will not be enough to put out the fire that has been scorching your feelings. But, it can also bring butterflies around you. It can bring hope and courage the time when you need it the most. Falling in-love can give a meaning to your life, it can bring a will to fight when you feel like cowing to the problems that comes your way.

As teens, both sides can either make or break themselves, this is the most crucial time. This is where we decide on what road are we going to take. Falling in-love is like a life vest that can save you when you are drowning or a stone that can drag you down. It can be a very harsh yet a very good feeling. It can make you stand on top of the world as if you were its king, or it can send you to the pits of despair.

But, the most important lesson of all, is that love always come at the right time. One doesn't have to expect or look for it, but instead, one HAS to wait for it. Because right things come at the right time, hindi sa gusto nating tamang oras, kung hindi sa gustong oras ng lumikha. So if ever you feel you are in-love, don't just ignore it. Who knows, maybe it's your turn to be loved truthfully and unselfishly. But, always be prepared for the worst, but also expect for the best.

Sorry for those people that thinks that this post is a bit weird. I'm in a love-love mode right now. Cheezy!